{"id":66819,"date":"2024-01-30T15:16:01","date_gmt":"2024-01-30T08:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alternatech.net\/?p=66819"},"modified":"2024-01-30T15:16:01","modified_gmt":"2024-01-30T08:16:01","slug":"best-marriage-advice-ever-by-a-dad-to-his-son-this-is-gold","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/best-marriage-advice-ever-by-a-dad-to-his-son-this-is-gold\/","title":{"rendered":"Best Marriage Advice Ever By A Dad To His Son. This is gold!"},"content":{"rendered":"

When I consider what type of advice is the best to give, I have to say marriage advice. Why? Because your spouse is who you spend your entire life with. They are the ones who endure every hardship, failure and struggle with you. They are by your side for success, growth and blessings. You lean on each other, rely on each other and make a life together.\n

A marriage is a partnership and if you nurture it, it can be the most powerful thing in your life. It can give you comfort and hope and stability when the rest of the world can not.\n

WORDS FROM A FATHER TO A SON ABOUT MARRIAGE.\n

1.My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if you\u2019re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don\u2019t marry her.\n

2.My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children but if you\u2019ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don\u2019t let her go.\n

3.My son, don\u2019t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they worked every morning . . . that was our office.\n

4.My son, if I tell you that you\u2019re the head of the house, don\u2019t look at your pocket; look if you will see a smile on your wife\u2019s face.\n

5.My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she\u2019s aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it\u2019s in your care, she will keep you asking even when all has been spent.\n

6.My son, don\u2019t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in trouble living with a wounded woman.\n

7.My son, now that you\u2019re married, if you live a bachelor kind of life with your wife, you will soon be single again.\n

8.My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.\n

9.My son, under the big tree that I did meet your mother could be your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet thing we did there was to embrace each other.\n

10.My son, don\u2019t be carried away when you start making more money, instead of spending on those tiny legs that never knew how hard you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you all along.\n

11.My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your mother father\u2019s house, to call her out, it was not for $ex, it was because I missed her so much.\n

12.My son, remember, when you say your wife has changed, there could be something you\u2019ve stopped doing too.\n

13.My son, your mother, she rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, any woman that won\u2019t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches.\n

14.My son, don\u2019t compare your wife to any woman, there are ways she\u2019s enduring you too and has she ever compared you to any man?\n

15.My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, if a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying the other part.\n

16.My son, I met your mother a virgin and I took more yams to her father, if you don\u2019t meet your wife a virgin, don\u2019t blame her, what I didn\u2019t tell you is that our women had prestige.\n

17.My son, I didn\u2019t send your sisters to school because I was foolish like many to think a female child won\u2019t extend my family name, please don\u2019t make that mistake, the kind of female achievers I see nowadays has made the male-gender an ordinary tag.\n

18.My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I never for once beat your mother.\n

19.My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I wouldn\u2019t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don\u2019t forget that they didn\u2019t expose any part of their body like your women of nowadays.\n

20.My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, try to handle issues without always coming to us.\n

21.My son, remember I bought your mother\u2019s first sewing machine for her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you\u2019re pursuing yours.\n

22.My son, don\u2019t stop taking care of me and your mother, it\u2019s a secret of growing old and having children to take care of you too.\n

23.My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don\u2019t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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