{"id":66400,"date":"2024-01-27T14:10:37","date_gmt":"2024-01-27T07:10:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alternatech.net\/?p=66400"},"modified":"2024-01-27T14:10:37","modified_gmt":"2024-01-27T07:10:37","slug":"13-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-child","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/13-things-you-should-never-say-to-your-child\/","title":{"rendered":"13 Things You Should Never Say To Your Child"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Stop crying
\nIf a child is crying, even if there is no particular reason for it, you should never make them feel stupid about it. It is hard for children to control their emotions so you need to let them express what they are feeling. If you are trying to stop them from crying, you are teaching them to stop having emotions.\n

2. You make me so sad
\nBeing a parent means being able to withhold your emotions and reactions around your child in any situation. No matter how frustrated or angry you are, you should never tell your child that they are making you sad. Instead of bursting out, sit down and explain to them what they did wrong.\n

3. You are worthless
\nThis may seem obvious, but when we are extremely angry it is difficult to control our words. But this sentence has a devastating effect on a child who is seeking your approval the most. Telling them they are worthless teaches them to seek approval in another place.\n

4. You drive me crazy
\nAnother sentence with devastating effects on a child. No child wants to hear that their parent is feeling crazy because of them. If they are misbehaving, it is much better to talk to them and explain what is wrong with their behavior.\n

5. You aren\u2019t enough
\nOf course, you can only imagine how a child could interpret these words. They might think that they lack something particular to be a good person.\n

6. Look at this lovely child
\nYour child might understand this as a way of saying they are worse than someone else. Comparing a child to other children might hurt their self-esteem which can make them think they are unable to achieve anything in life.\n

7. Why do I have to tell you this so many times?
\nIf you think that constantly repeating your words is not working, it is time for a different approach. Children can easily tune you out if they are not interested in what you are saying, so nagging is never the solution.\n

8. You shouldn\u2019t get scared
\nChildren face fear in lots of aspects of life such as peer rejection, judgment, failure, etc. Telling your child that they should not be afraid teaches them to suppress their fear. It is a much better idea to let them talk about the things that scare them.\n

9. I do everything for you
\nA child expects their parent to do everything for them since they feel protected and guided by them. You are responsible for your child, so don\u2019t let them think the opposite.\n

10. I am disappointed in you
\nSaying this to your child no matter how old they are will always sound like saying you consider them a failure. It can seriously affect their self-esteem, so instead try to guide them to the right path.\n

11. It is no big deal
\nIt might not be important to you, but it might be the whole world for your child. Never underestimate things your child considers valuable.\n

12. You are so lazy
\nChildren are not always lazy, sometimes they are unable to accomplish something because of an underlying reason. Instead of hurting their self-esteem with this phrase, try to motivate them without mentioning the word \u201clazy\u201d.\n

13. You are fat
\nHearing this always hurts, but it is especially hurtful if it comes from our parents. Also, your child might often hear this from schoolmates, so always let them know that your home is the place where they will feel safe, and not get bullied even more.\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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