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Sister: My wedding is in a month!!! Is it okay to share everything with your partner?\n If you\u2019re sensible you wouldn\u2019t ? , Sister: My wedding is in a month!!! Me: AAAAH, awesome, congratulations!!! But I didn’t know you were even dating someone A week before the wedding, I asked her: Me: “You didn’t forget my invitation, did you?” Sister: “Sorry, but you’re not invited…” She slammed the door and left. On the wedding day, I get a\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":65584,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"","_seopress_robots_index":"","_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[657],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-65581","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-love-and-relationships"},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/01\/415984773_905149610975931_7384615113194451875_n-e1705462210401.jpeg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65581","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65581"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65581\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/65584"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/writehorizon.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nMe: AAAAH, awesome, congratulations!!! But I didn’t know you were even dating someone A week before the wedding, I asked her:
\nMe: “You didn’t forget my invitation, did you?”
\nSister: “Sorry, but you’re not invited…”
\nShe slammed the door and left.
\nOn the wedding day, I get a call from a mutual friend.
\nFriend: “COME HERE RIGHT NOW!”
\nI rushed to the wedding and saw my boyfriend in a wedding tuxedo.
\nMy mom, dad, and the whole family were also there. Sister: “Oh, you came. The truth is, your boyfriend is my husband now…\n
\nThe price of wisdom sometimes is pain. Either you pay the price or the person who shared the wisdom with you already paid it ,
\nYour woman can never get enough of your words . If you\u2019re arguing with someone who relies on emotion instead of logic, you\u2019ll never ever win , even if you\u2019re right ,
\nBoundaries come in here , you\u2019ve the right to privacy . Setting boundaries is difficult but important for peace ,
\nYou can\u2019t fix your partner . You can fix yourself. Nevertheless, one must make a conscious choice to live each day with honour, integrity , perseverance & gratitude in a relationship,
\nMany times we try to do something nice for someone & it turns on wrong . Why ?? What you think someone will appreciate & what that person actually prefers may be totally different. One of the difficulties in every relationship is to understand what\u2019s important for people ,
\nYour pain & frustration in life are not her fault. There has to be difference between privacy & secrecy . You need to stop telling her everything that\u2019s going on in your life,
\nIt\u2019s important to share your inner-world with your partner. We can\u2019t assume they know our thoughts , fears , & dreams but when you start sharing everything, this energy can often spill out in unintentional & displaced ways ,
\nIt\u2019s easy to complain, find flaws , be a pessimist . However , this is not where relationships thrive,
\nJust Chill.!!\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"